A bucket list is a list of things you would like to do before you die. Many people make this list in hopes they will get around to crossing all the things off their list before they “kick the bucket.” A few months ago I ran into an article where someone had a sexual bucket list. A sex bucket list is just like a bucket list but instead of seeing things like “travel to a foreign country” or “ride in a hot air balloon,” you are more likely to see “join the mile high club” or “trying the 69 position.” Some people focus more on people they would like to have sex with while others focus on places they would like to have sex or new positions they would like to incorporate. Intrigued with the idea, I have decided to make my own sexual bucket list. I thought it might be fun to share my list with my readers and blog about my experiences as I cross them off of my list.
Here are just a few things to keep in mind if you decide to make your own sexual bucket list. If you are married or in a committed relationship it is important to communicate with your partner about your list and discuss anything your partner may be apprehensive about. My spouse and I made our sexual bucket list together and this can be a fun and eye-opening experience. Maybe you will discover that your partner has always wanted to try role-playing or has a fantasy about being tied up and didn’t know how to communicate this with you. A sexual bucket list can be a go to of fun ideas when things seem to be stuck in a rut.
Another thing to remember is that your sexual bucket list is not set in stone. Feel free to change the list as you see fit. It is meant to be fun and, if at anytime it is not, change it! Just because you thought it would be exciting to have sex in a car doesn’t mean it will be for you, if it is more uncomfortable than fun stop doing it and take it off your list. If you run across a new idea you want to try don’t forget to add it to your list!
So without further ado, you can check out my sex bucket list HERE. Feel free to comment below and let me know what items you have on your list.